男人心海底针 男人真正想说的是什么

Novelist and official Southern Belle Loraine Despres used to warn me to be wary of men who say, "When I'm done with you.��" As in, "When I'm done with you, you'll know Paris like the back of your hand," or, "By the time I'm done with you, you'll have a wardrobe of real silk lingerie." It means, she says, he expects to be done with you. Me, all I hear is Paris and panties.

小说家洛兰·德普雷是一位真正的南方淑女，她过去常警告我要小心那些说“……我才会和你分开”的男人，比如“你对巴黎了如指掌的时候，我才会和你分开”，或者“你拥有一整柜真丝内衣的时候，我才会和你分开” 。洛兰认为男人说这些话的意思是他想和你分手。而我呢，只听到巴黎和裤裤。

What he says: "I love you... just not in the way you want to be loved."

他说：“我爱你……只是与你希望被爱的方式不同。”

What I hear: "I love you."

我听到的是：“我爱你。”

What he really means: "I love having a friend with benefits."

他真正想说的是：“我好想找个炮友。”

What he says: "I'm really not ready for a relationship."

他说：“我真的没有做好恋爱的准备。”

What I hear: "Hang in there, baby. We have a future together."

我听到的是：“坚持下去，宝贝，将来我们会在一起的。”

What he really means: "I don't want to be in a relationship. At least, not with you."

他真正想说的是：“我不想谈恋爱，至少不是和你谈。”

What he says: "You're so hot!"

他说：“你真性感！”

What I hear: "You're so beautiful!"

我听到的是：“你真漂亮！”

What he really means: "Take off your clothes."

他真正想说的是：“脱吧！”

What he says: "This is getting too intense too fast. We should make some space."

他说：“一切来得太快太突然，我们应该留点空间。”

What I hear: "The depth of my passion for you scares me."

我听到的是：“我对你火热的激情让我不知所措。”

What he really means: "I'm interested in seeing someone else."

他真正想说的是：“我想再找别人。”

What he says: "It's not you, it's me."

他说：“不怪你，怪我。”

What I hear: "You are perfect, I am broken. Will you fix me?"

我听到的是：“你很完美，而我有问题。你能治愈我吗？”

What he really means: "I'm already seeing someone else."

他真正想说的是：“我已经看上别人了。”